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How I Met A Single Lady In US At adatingnet.com

This is a true successful story that our members shared with us. They had been going many dating sites but never found a true mate. Finally, they found each other at our free Singles site, adatingnet.com.

Single WomenAfter going the rounds with scammers, losers, users and just creeps in general, both of us were pretty relieved to meet just a pen pal that we could chat with about things that interested us.

And then our relationship … changed. From penpals to cyber-dating to finally meeting in real time. It certainly wasn’t the first time either of us had met a potential mate in real-life from an on-line encounter. But it turned out much differently than either of us anticipated. For both of us, real-life meets had always turned out badly. Not so much from disappointment but from mis-representation.

From the beginning, we were scrupulously honest – no reason not to be – we were just friends. The honesty & friendship we built over the months before things changed served us well.

(MG): In late June, she traveled from the US to east Africa. Without a single word of Kiswahili. I was worried that she couldn’t handle the lifestyle change, from the US to a relatively primitive lifestyle. Even though she told me before hand that she had experience in our way of living, I couldn’t believe it – until I saw it! She’s more than I expected, and we’re a perfect match.

(K): In late June, I flew from the US to Nairobi, then a 4 hour drive to MG’s house. The Kenyan winter was perfect weather for a northern Yankee. I was amazed at how well things went with our first f/f meeting. I was even more surprised with his proposal!! I can’t wait to go back in October for a longer stay. We’ve both started job hunting – me in Nairobi and him here in the US – and depending on who gets a good job first, will decide on where we live. I had pretty much given up on the on-line dating scene but I’m *so* glad I gave it one more chance!

Thanks, single123 🙂

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First Date Dating Tips For Singles

Many singles don’t know how to prepare for their first date so this article may be a solution. Two beautiful eyes, that mesmerizing smile, and that guy or that girl who is so close to your heart. All you want is to talk with that person, to make that person laugh, to make him or her fall in love with you. Well there is a saying that God can do everything but He can never make some one fall in love. It is you who have to take the initiative to impress the person of your dreams and making him or her fall in love with you.

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Now, to get quite close to that person, all you need is a perfect date with him or her o as to make a comfortable place in his or her heart. People often come running to me asking about some tips or tricks or any short cut with which a he can easily make someone fall in love with him. Well practically this is impossible.

I don’t want to dishearten the readers, but this is a fact that there is no short cut to love. There are no magic formulas, no secret method or any cunning ways with which you can make some one fall in love with you. But yes, if you are going out on your first date, then I sure have some tips for you to make your first date a successful and memorable one.

The first and the foremost tip for going out on your first date is that get well prepared for your dating. If you want to get a success then I would suggest that do not go on a date with a half heated feeling. Whatever you do, do it with full confidence. You give a half hearted effort; you can’t even get half of the way!

If you are one of these singles who never have experience about dating, then you should read this. Secondly, do some research on what you want to say and what you have to wear as your appearance will matter the most. Be presentable and do not give up even if you get rejected. If possible, join a gym or read some health magazines and star getting some good diet. Also get your hair styled and start everything else necessary for making you look good. Remember the above mentioned tips are not for getting a date for yourself but to enhance your confidence on your first date which is the main catalyst.

Just to get some appreciation from your date, which is also another ingredient for the recipe of your love story, another tip that I would like to provide is that do plenty of shopping and improve your appearance by throwing out your old shirts and jeans and other stuffs. Get into a whole new look but also don’t pretend to be some one which you are not. This tip is just to improve your physical appearance.

Just make this sure that you are up to date with current affairs, watch the news regularly and read newspapers. Women never like stupidity, or appreciate a guy who sounds dumb.

Also try to develop a good sense of humor, which is very important as women love guys with great sense of humor. But beware of not cracking any stupid or poor jokes that may annoy her or create a feeling of boredom.

Never expect sex on your first date and therefore refrain yourself from any cheap or dirty talks. Quit smoking and drinking temporarily.

Try to groom yourself and learn some manners, chivalry and courtesy. Trust me! A woman really likes being treated with respect and care. So try to be al little caring but do not pretend for God’s sake. Women hate pretentious persons. Help yourself with losing the swear words, coarse language, the laziness and the rudeness. Know how to present and eat in a top restaurant. Gather some knowledge about fashion, jewelry and flowers.

Last but not the least, dress up in formals and stop wearing funky clothes on a date. Bring a sensible gift for your princess, which does not include beer bottle or a baseball or other such stupid stuffs.

Follow these for now and be sure to shake hands with success. Happy dating!

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